Suzanne - Thanks for all your comments on my thread.

I'm not sure what to say to you in your sitch as, for me, when OP become involved, it adds a whole new other dimension that your fighting against. I mean, you mentally cannot accept it I don't think, I know I can't. It's tough as it is, but I definately feel those without OP in their sitches can DB easier.

We will be ok though. Sleep is essentila for us so i'm off to bed shortly myself. 10.10pm in UK