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It is easy to blame the OP. But the reality is that our spouses (or former spouses) told these other people that they were available


True, but you know the op was foolish enough to believe it...they also only listened to what was most convenient for them in that situation.

I do not fully blame op. But I do think it takes 2 to tango.

Love Cinders xxx

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