Ok, well she gave me an earful today. She is going to do what she wants. I was plenty validating. She got so mad that I was calm she told me to go hang out with our cousin.
I think it was the sentence. Wife I don't want to be right. You always wanted to be right, and I always wanted to be right. I don't want to be right. I want this family to be happy.
She said she wasn't wrong. (Well she is plenty wrong)
She felt like she can do whatever she wants at the childrens expense because she felt I did in the past.
She still has this notion that was a drunk all the time.
I did ask her if I ever did anything right. She said NO.
Ok, so I didn't do anything right. We both had the BOSS attitude.
I said you are the queen. I love my queen. The queen wins. I am a peasant.
Since you won. How does it feel. I feel pretty good losing.
Thats when she said go hang out with our cousin.
I think she is starting to beat herself up. They may be a good thing.
