I wish it was just a matter of restraint...but emotions, (things you are passionate about) make you do strange things... and I don't want anymore pain on either side.
Actually, Cinders it is a matter of restraint. If you were not emotionally attached there would be no need for restraint. You make the decision to restrain yourself and what you will find is that facing those emotion s allows you to get past them. I am speaking from experience.