"i'm down today. almost as if i doubt things will ever get better than they are now....casual friends. it sucks."
I am gonna play with your words here.. but isn't this what has been missing from your relationship.. all along? I mean.. you have had sex.. should this not be something to focus on for a while? Call me crazy!
I get EXACTLY what FG is saying here. I want to be friends with my H, not just his lover. Sex can come and go and requires no real commitment of self. But, to be friends---AAHHHH, now that takes something from inside to build and gives me something to build on to get to the next level. That is where I am working from now. I am thinking that H and I are getting back to that friend stage. Are you and W? I see it, don't you?
SMW
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Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. I Corinthians 13:7
