Advice from my DB coach #3

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Maybe I screwed up again, but I finally was able to get my boundaries spoken. He was angry, threatened again to have the phone cut off on me. Said he was my husband "legally but not in spirit." I said my boundaries were no phone calls and whispering. No driving past the house. (He did that this morning and told me so).
So, I totally messed up. Need to be on meds. I've been sleeping on and off.

Don't feeling like posting much.

Thank you all for your feedback last night, but I'm the fool for love, I guess. Can't deal with this anymore for awhile. Thank you all. Will lurk later, maybe.

hugs,
s

You did NOT mess up. You need boundaries, YOU are IMPORTANT, too!!!

Now, just think about consequences,small, not methods of killing him or divorcing him.

Don't sweat it...you did the right thing. The right thing sometimes gives us knots in our stomach. I bet your toes look awesome, and he knows it. We KNOW her toes aren't so cute.