Originally Posted By: Neilh23
yes it made sense. i forget sometimes to see things thru her eyes.

i already called her back and offered to help. going to get d2 in a few minutes. I told her it's the right thing to do, a nd that i wanted to help.

why can't women say they're tired and exhausted instead of being b**chy?



I'm so proud of you !!! *huge smile*

"Supermoms" don't allow themselves to be tired & exhausted. Pain comes out as anger. Whenever she's angry, remember, she's really in pain, but doesn't know how to show it.

You're doing really good !!! Even if she doesn't say anything, she'll see it & feel it. Brownie points to you !


M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months
4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10
I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.