Ian is right Lissie, you are their anchor and stability. They will be OK regardless of the arrangements with their Dad. It may not be as bad for them, they adjust and adapt to their environment. As long as it's a loving one, they will turn out just fine and you will be responsible for that.
Maybe it's just harder on you to adjust to the circumstances. I know how you feel. I wish I could do something to make it better. I don't like to see anyone suffer through something like this. I hope you can find some peace and happiness in abundance Lissie because I think your a great person who deserves it.
"It is curious that physical courage should be so common in the world and moral courage so rare." -Mark Twain
