I dont know much about Chinese culture in regards to marriage and divorce.
Kerry, the Chinese culture is very dedicated to family. Family is everything. I thought he would do whatever possible to avoid the shame of divorce, but apparently he is too angry. I'm prepared for him to shift the blame to me... in fact, I think he truly believes all the blame does indeed belong to me. He has never taken any responsibility for where we are today. It's OK. It doesn't matter what he or anyone else thinks. It's what I KNOW in my heart that matters.
His mom's sister is in the middle of a very ugly divorce. But she's CRAZY and everyone knows it. She's married to a Danish guy. Maybe races aren't meant to mix... Although, I prefer to think of Viktor Frankl's quote (paraphrased), "There are only two races of people. Those who are decent and those who are not."
M: 37 H: 36 Married: Aug 13, 2004 Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008 Reconciled: September 2008 Current: Ambivalence
