MIL and FIL work too much to attend a MC session so I am afraid it will just be me. Not sure how to find a pro-marriage counselor though. I have another appointment with pastor on Wednesday.... Going to see if he'll talk to her or if she has to come to him. If so I'll get his card.
Most counsellors will try to save a marriage if they can.
I would reccomend you talk to your pastor about a list of marriage counselors in your area, he should be able to give you references.
Talk to them on the phone just to get a sense of what their approach is, let them know what your situation is and ask if they think they can help.
