reasons TO DB

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I decided to start a thread on this topic since there isa a lot of questioning on whether DBing "works."

-I will know that I did my best and tried my hardest.

-It is psychologically healthy. Detaching and working on yourself are good things. GALing is a good thing.

-I will avoid making the same mistakes again (I hope).

-I have been able to see H w/compassion and I feel this is good for one's soul.

-It is good for co-parenting relationsihp. Even if H has hurt me more than anyone in my entire life, I can at least be civil and remember that I was not crazy for falling in love with him.