Oh, and Peace--you are doing the same things regardless of whether H responds or not.
With D, I look at it like a martial arts person. I'm not attacking. I'm deflecting. I just respond to what he does but I don't initiate anything, either.
I don't know if it is working or not.
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D
