Right after my H dropped the bomb he told me he knew I didn't deserve what he did to me but he just wanted out.
Then as I pursued (pre-dbusting) he got nastier and nastier. He would say it was all my fault, i.e. I didn't wake up when he got up for work to make him breakfast.
Never once did he ask me to do that for him.
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Had he talked to me, whatever was bothering him, could have been corrected, but heck, I couldn't read his mind and a crystal ball wouldn't have helped either.
Exactly! I said to him "I am not a mind reader, if all these things bothered you, you should of spoken up and I could of done something about it."
He said "I shouldn't of had to tell you, you should of just known."
I tried changing everything he complained about but it didnt' make a difference. So now I just make changes for me, the heck with him.
