Peace, I am following the DB C's advice, which is to limit contact, make the contact that I do have pleasant, and to make it clear that I am moving along with my life.
At the same time, it is up to H to do all the work. If he doesn't move forward with his L, do nothing.
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D