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W seemed different last night... anyways what is everyone's experience, have you all gotten to a point where you say .. forget it...it's done, even if W/H changes their mind?

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Yes.

It's normal.

Don't make any sudden decisions based on this.

(((Sawks)))


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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Everyone thinks that.

Don't close the door completely unless you are absolutely 100% sure though. And even then, if they make drastic changes, maybe you should reconsider.

However, in a more moderate dose, that feeling can be good for detaching.

How are things different?


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Originally Posted By: LolaL
Yes.

It's normal.

Don't make any sudden decisions based on this.

(((Sawks)))



Nope no sudden decisions, i am sticking to day by day philiosophy..

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Originally Posted By: MichelleLT
Everyone thinks that.

Don't close the door completely unless you are absolutely 100% sure though. And even then, if they make drastic changes, maybe you should reconsider.

However, in a more moderate dose, that feeling can be good for detaching.

How are things different?


I can't explain it.. last night when i gave her the perfume, i asked if she could let me smell it, she sprayed it on the bottle, i said nono, spray it on your wrist.. then i took her wrist, smelt it, and she laughed she said, well u don't have to eat my wrist.. it just seemed different.. maybe me being away for 5 days messed me up? i seemed to have had mixed feelings again today.. thinking about her alot, even if she isn't thinking about me \:\( (well i don't really know that)

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now i snooped agaon and found out w is going on a coffee "date" ..

just motivates me even more (but now i really want to kick her out of the house)

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i really don't want to step backwards... can anyone give me an idea of what to do?

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Coffee date with who? Is it male or female, could it be a girlfriend?

YES STOP SNOOPING!!!

A bit of philosophy, be careful of what questions you ask, you might get answers.


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Coffee date with who? Is it male or female, could it be a girlfriend?

YES STOP SNOOPING!!!

A bit of philosophy, be careful of what questions you ask, you might get answers.


nope some guy she met on an internet dating site.. makes me want to keep going the way i am going with a side of vindictiveness..

i don't ask questions anymore, we just walked the dogs and she really didn't even talk to me..

she put on that fake tan stuff, and it looks kind of silly..

i am going to go do a spin class and maybe yoga today, need to get out of here..

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Sounds like a good idea. Get your mind off of the sitch any way you can. (((Sawks))) I am sorry this is going this way for you, but never say never. Concentrate on you now, and love yourself.


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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