You sound good. If I might offer one suggestion: Tell your husband that you would prefer he not send messages through your kids. Ny him telling your daughter something like that to tell you puts her in a bad place. He can pick up the phone I'm sure.
Remember "your game, your rules"
I agree with you completely about the messages Woog. That is how H opperates though. A year ago he complained that we don't communicate, yet he still isn't putting the effort into that. Heck, he told the Ds that I should buy a house without us coming to an agreement on that.
D10 got very upset with him lastnight before he left. I communicated that to him, but he didn't address it. After he left he called me to check on her.
I am trying to write the rules Woog, but you know how men hate to read directions. Ouch!
R 23 years M 20 years Bomb June 2007 S Oct 2007 Ds 11 & 16 Ds and I moved out Aug. 2008
