Ali...stay cool and calm and collected. I agree with you that it was inappropriate behavior to be in the bar late. I agree with above that you both NEED and DESERVE to discuss this. Stay strong. Piecing is not easy and I hear it always hurts to some degree. Following.

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;