I met this gentleman through a divorce support group. His wife was unfaithful and moved out last Spring. We both know each other's situations, thoughts on relationships and the like. It's nice because we both don't have to avoid talking about our stbx spouses, which is key because the move, the divorce, dealing with the kid fallout is the biggest thing in my life right now. It's not like it's the only thing we talk about it, but I think that if I had to avoid all mentions of my STBXH I would be leaving out a big chunk of me and my life. He's great and I really enjoy our friendship.


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.