Just so you folks know, I went to a birthday dinner tonight for my former FIL. Know what. I actually just talk to the man who was once considered OM at one point in time.
Good for you, I applaud you that you have reached that point sometime in your journey. However, please don't tell us to just get over it. Maybe we will, but it will be when we are ready. You just can't tell someone to get over it, there are too many emotions involved. That's like telling someone to just get over their spouse leaving. We all know here that it is easier said than done.
IMP, I think I have said this before to you....We are only human, not a freakin' robot. We come with emotions and those emotions can't just be turned off with a switch.
Sometime I think you are part robot, lol. Just kidding.
I for one know that I am not ready to face the ow. For goodness sakes, ever time he uses her car to drive the kids home I want to throw up. I know I will not be able to hold my emotions back if she came to.
