I tell her. I just want you to come home. She says. Right you just want e to come home. You don't care about the kids.
That is a map Phil. She is telling you that it is about more than simply you and her. It is about what kind of father you are. That she needs a partner to parent with. Seeing that she is not very good with rules and guidelines for the kids, I would even say that she needs a partner who will take control and lead the parenting.
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No (her name) I want my family home. I want my F'n family home. She pulls away. The only thing I can do is shake my head.
Then I text her about a half hour later. I still want to be married. I love you. I love you kids.
Phil, this is pursuit and begging and it is not working. You have to stop saying this kind of stuff. You are putting to much pressure on her with this kind of talk. No more I love you's unless she asks you if you do. No more I want you home, unless she asks if you do. No more I want to be married, unless she asks you if you want to. You have to stop.
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Prayer isn't working.
It's not the prayer that is not working Phil. Keep praying, it is for God to decide the time frame, not you.
