Good point Cinders. Not a good idea to try to be civil to OW when you already know that you could not shut down your emotions about her enough to do it. It would only hurt you further and hurt your children in the long run. H and OW would probably gain strength from your emotional pain. That's no way to be.

Have a great Sunday!

T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!