The Wifey - trying hard not to cry.

[poet]

"I remember how stressful it was for me when H was in the house and his focus was elsewhere (OW). When they are still home it makes detachment doubly difficult."

Hi Wifey,

Sometimes I think you and I are the same person. But I know it is only that you and I have similar sitches. I had a night home with my H on Friday, and we had a fight. It's not a good place to be in. He spent last night away and when he called me I did not answer. It was painful, but he left me a text message to call him. I did not.

He called an hour later and left a "I said I would call you once and you didn't answer, so I'm sorry," voicemail. To me, this means he called twice instead of the once he said he would do. I am trying, just like you, to detach, and it is easier when I am home alone. I like being here. That's worth something, right?

hugs to you this beautiful morning,
s

(Oops, that was a quote from 'Imstillhopeful' and not you. Sorry, but I think you get the idea, right?) Hope so.