Hi Julia, just checking on you. I'll try to find a post on detaching that I thought was great... I know it's difficult but it's the only way forward. And it increases your chances for reconciliation although it feels as if you are doing exactly the opposite. Makes you want to fight it at times, doesn't it? There were moments I didn't want my life to continue without him, being stubborn trying to hold on to "us" as if that would bring him closer... Guess what? Wrong attitude...
