Must be in the air. I'm having a downer day too. Nothing that really caused it, .....like you though, just wishing I could press the fast forward button. Hang in there. I'm just thankful we all have each other to talk to and prop each other up. Vent here, be sad here, and ROCK the DBing with him!! Maybe while you are there you could journal about your experiences. Maybe even WRITE to your H, and share it with him in the future when you are back officially together and everything is great! Write down all those feelings now so you don't forget!
Chris
__________ Me:39 H:39 D:8 D:4 M:9 (T 13) Bomb 4-5-08, H moved out 6-16-08, Reconciled and H moved back in 5-31-09 Still doing GREAT a year later!!!
the thing is i dont want to forget...i think things are looking good for us....i know there is nothing i can do to "make" to go faster...i just want to talk to him and share all the stuff i learned about my family....
just a little sad....
pisces- you will be able to. just have patience. when the time is right, you'll have a huge talk with him about the stuff you learned. I want to talk with my W about alot of stuff (remember, my letter?) and what did everyone tell me? wait. patience.
The name of your thread....? Remember that kiddo.
You're doing really well. YOu just need to have a bit of patience.....let him miss you some more
look for the positives!
ME:32 WAW:31 D #1: 3.5 D #2: 2 Together: 13 M:6 Bomb Dropped: 2/15/08 Sep legally: 6/18/08
"Tommorrow there'll be sunshine, and all this darkness past..." -Bruce Springsteen Land of Hope and Dreams
Must be in the air. I'm having a downer day too. Nothing that really caused it, .....like you though, just wishing I could press the fast forward button.
7YI- everyday, i wish for a fast forward button. It'll be ok. This too shall pass...keep that in mind.
i'm having a day like that today...LOL...gotta GAL!!!!!
stay strong
ME:32 WAW:31 D #1: 3.5 D #2: 2 Together: 13 M:6 Bomb Dropped: 2/15/08 Sep legally: 6/18/08
"Tommorrow there'll be sunshine, and all this darkness past..." -Bruce Springsteen Land of Hope and Dreams
WOW, so many people having a hard time of it today and yesterday. What's going on. Is it in the stars or something? I feel terrible for all those who are hurting. It really is almost overwhelming.
I wish there was something we could all do for each other, in words, that would make eveyone feel better. It's like we should ALL make an appointment to get on the boards today at a certain time, like 6 p.m. maybe?
This was a rough weekend for us all, huh? (((Big hug for all of us.)))
Suzanne, your idea of coming together at the same time to meditate on the idea of a miracle is a really good one. Unfortunately, I can't be here at 6pm today, but I will think about you all AT 6 pm (that's 6 pm EST or PST or what?).
Have you guys ever heard of the meditation/prayer groups that theoretically lowered crime rates in several cities? Apparently, a paper on it was published in a peer-reviewed journal. Here's more info on it:
