SAndi~ My laptop is on the fritz(brand new mind you!), I just left work...12 hours of hell!, and I'm getting sinus infection....and I'm tired...sorry, whiney!! So I'm just going to answer a few quick things...then off to bed.
Before, the parents past....I wouldn't take any BS...I was a fireball...and pretty much still kept up...I have no problem keeping my "guns" loaded...The problem is, sometimes my words get out ahead of my brain...and that gets me into trouble...you know open mouth insert foot disease. I once said, "the bread winner" is tired and wants to go home...when he was laid off of work....I still heard about that one last year when we were "dating" or whatever you want to call it.
Girl/OW...I refer to her as PIA (pain in my arss) so from here on out she is now known to us as PIA...he got a ride home from her in OCT, 2 days before our wedding anniv. he stated nothing happend....all i know is he and his buddies said they were playing poker...he said he was drunk and she gave him a ride there...and they called eachother a few times and text...all while a sober wife was at home who could have done just that for him....sealed the deal on me walking. So then I walk in JAn. he wanted to do counseling which I agreed to, I get the phone bill(cell) 2 days before 2nd counseling session...low and behold, he's calling her all hours of the night, texting her...all while telling me how badly he wants to work things out...he said she was just "being his friend"....interesting.
Yes, Bring it on...will do flirty mcflirty....game on!
Got to get out of this funk somehow...might as well be on my own game!
Last statement...not sure...will think when head clearer...you are giving me gump riddles now. just kidding....
got to go to bed
thanks sandy...i think i got most of the major questions answered...if not i will check back tomorrow, hopefully my laptop will be working...and i'm not doing this from my 2000yr old, old slow computer!
thanks & hugs christa
H-32 Me-29 T-10years M-4yr (10/04) Me- WAW 1/07 I filed for D 2/07 D put on hold 5/07 H re-files for D 9/08 WOW! trying MC 10/08
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