YES- he didnt mention anything about it being PT...big step. also- i think its good that you are going to a BBQ right away...it will make him miss you more and its good you are busy!
i think what you are doing is perfect... i know that feeling of just wanting him to come home BUT you have made such progress w him just being you and GAL'ing, etc....
Patience my dear! i am happy for you...it is all good right now
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