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Good Luck Chris!!!!!!!

You sound good and I am glad you are steering clear of R talks.

Knock 'em dead today!

(((((Chris)))))


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YOU will do well! you have PMA all over you! Act AS If you are meant for this job!

and such huge progress with your H! i think that is all good- he is really warming up to you \:\) yes, day by day, week by week!

i would wear some tight breeches ;\) and a snazzy polo shirt! unless its Western then a HUGE belt buckle!

((((Chris)))) tell us how it goes!


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Hey Chris

good luck at the interview. Maybe you could wear a nice pair of jeans with boots and a very nice shirt. That way you're dressed up and down.

You had a great interaction with your H! I think I'll try some wrestling ;\)

It's true you, Pisces, Changed Woman and I seem to in the same phase of our Rs. I think we can learn from each other.


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I got it!! Well, sort of. They want to "test me out" next Wednesday. So I'm going to go in take photos and video of their horses, do some photoshopping ,and work on their website. They'll see if they like my work, and if so, I'm in! YAY!

I was so unsure. It was the fastes interview of my life. So I left feeling pretty much like it was over. Then the guy called me 10 minutes later and told me they wanted to test me out.

YAY!!

A job close to home (nearly an impossible feat) that I get to wear jeans to, they are TOTALLY flexible schedule wise, and I get to be around horses all day. DREAMY!!!

I hope I get it officially after next Wednesday!

Chris


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Wow Chris great news! Knock em dead on Wednesday! Have you told your H yet?


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good job...sounds like you will be living the dream \:\)
i love horses too- so calming...
CONGRATS!


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Thanks guys.

Well, I'm sitting here waiting for D2 to wake up from her nap, then we go into town to see H play in his football game. I did up my hair, and wearing a flattering outfit. All set. The bummer thing is his game is around the same time we are supposed to be at my friends house for a BBQ. So I don't think there will be a chance for lingering and talking aftewards. More like.. "great, thanks for inviting us. Bye" \:\(

Oh well. I can't even play the mysterious card, because he knows where we are going. Won't see him long tomorrow either. He's going to pick up the girls to take them to the show tomorrow, then they stay at his house tomorrow night. Should get to see him for a decent amount of time on Monday at least. Hopefully anyway.

I'm in that mode where I just want to say. "let's stop this crap and come home already" to him ,but I know I need to resist. I'm making progress, just got a job, feeling good.... need to let it ride, but man I'm tired of waiting.

He seemed excited for me with the job opportunity. Didn't seem bothered that it's part time for awhile and he couldn't guarentee full time for awhile (which obviously I need if we D). Makes me think he is rethinking too. HE was ADAMENT before that I needed full time, and NOW.

Progress?

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YES- he didnt mention anything about it being PT...big step.
also- i think its good that you are going to a BBQ right away...it will make him miss you more and its good you are busy!

i think what you are doing is perfect...
i know that feeling of just wanting him to come home BUT you have made such progress w him just being you and GAL'ing, etc....

Patience my dear! i am happy for you...it is all good right now \:\)


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Yes, but Chris, think of it this way...

And I am speaking of this happening yesterday

He saw you looking hot, and then was left wondering HUH?!? and scratching his head...


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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Sorry it's a bit belated, but congratulations on the new job!!! It sounds great, and you sound like you're doing so much better.


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