Thanks, P. You are so sweet and have a big heart. : ) Yes, this was a learning experience. I've figured out through being on this board that H and I had/have? a very tumultuous relationship, and it's not healthy.
And now I realize that I'm the only one that can change that--because he IS depressed and pretty angry, and in self-destruct mode. Sometimes the only tool that I have is my love for him and I'm not sure that's enough.
It is in the shelter of each other that people live.--Irish proverb
