((((Lost)))) no 2x4's...and actually overall it wen well at the end...you know what didnt work...crying and the fighting...he asked WHY you wanted him and you told him which i think was very good for him to hear...you let him know despite the kid issue or house issue that you still loved him...clearly he is very insecure about himself and feels he is not worth loving...this is a sign of depression...so you telling him how much you love him is OK for him to hear...just dont say it anymore....
he is on a journey right now of self discovery...the love you show him and the more patience he will be able to see what he is missing.
also- HE clearly doesnt want this...he was amped up too from this discussion...let him initiate all talk about separating from now on....and him saying you could go without insurance is just another set of "words"..
do not believe anything he says and 1/2 if what he does.
i have seen some posts here where the spouse says they want out one day and say they want to come home the next...
just learn from this- do not see him when sick and pms'ing
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