WAW and OM

[rpierson10]

Thanks Lost! I appreciate your input as someone who is possibly shares my wife's thoughts. There was a time when we first started talking about things that she said she really doesn't consider us married anymore. We only had a "courthouse" marriage so she sees it as little more than a piece of paper. At least that's what she told me back at the end of May.

I am trying to be patient and see what happens. We don't talk about the OM at all anymore. That's one of the ground rules we established. Initially she did say that he makes her happy but that they are very different people. But that they balance each other out. Don't know what that means for their future or not.

I do have a question for everyone on here. My W is going to be in town this next week until Thursday night (that's her b-day). Should I invite her to dinner or lunch earlier on in the week? I'm thinking about doing that but I don't know if I should. I got her a simple card and put together a photo slideshow DVD to her favorite music for her. I'm hoping that will seem very personable and shows her that I still care a lot about her.

Thanks again everyone!