wow- thanks torchbearer! that is very helpful...this is an odd transitional period and i dont know for sure where we are heading...i am needing space too but i just want to hear him say he wants to come home...i know i know- patience and continue to do what im doing... sometimes i feel so string and clear and other times i am so not sure if he will recommit. so far everything looks good...i am happy to hear that the work continues...i think that is important to know...thank ou for your insight....trying to not contact him after our rendevous for our anniversary last week \:\)

minkerman- ive been reading your posts as well for inspiration...i think the ring is a symbol and if everything else is going well...that will come with time...

i was thinking to make a ceremony out of it later...much later...and recommit to eachother....we shall see!

thanks for the DB help!

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