Cmon on up for the Rising on the Lake Erie Shore

[Continuing]

I miss my kids and my W. yes yes..i know..i know........ detach.
but i dont' know if this is different.....like i said before, i miss them. its a normal feeling. its not like i NEED to see them. I WANT to see them..all three of them.
Is there a difference? I think so.....

Hey man, I'm right there with ya. I think its grief. We've both lost alot and this is part of the process. Detaching doesn't mean constant happiness. You're right, its different. For me it feels different. I first felt panic when this all started with my wife (how can I go on?!?!) but now it has moved to sorrow (I'm can go on but I am sad for what I have lost).

In a way I think its good that I (we) are experiencing this.

A wound will never heal unless you know you have one.

B