Girlie, as far as fixing dinner....does it give you pleasure ? Is it rewarding for you ? Are you doing it just for him ? Are you doing it for his sincere appreciation ? What are your reasons for doing it ? If you don't want to, then stop. If it is something YOU enjoy, continue.
It's about YOU. Not him.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
I can understand cow tipping, but I cannot understand a manure fight.
OK, you know I'm a city girl, b/c I don't get either of those? You actually tip the cows over??? Although now I actually want to see that b/c it seems so weird/funny (I guess)!
Alright-secret confession here, too, I will also cook for the kids and I and ask if my H wants some (sometimes he does and sometimes no). But in my defense, my dad raised me to always offer food, not eat in front of people without offering them food as being extremely rude. So just my perspective.
I wouldn't text your H though about dinner plans--that seems a little like pursuing or something doesn't it? But then I should talk, huh??? Karen
Karen