Girlie, as far as fixing dinner....does it give you pleasure ? Is it rewarding for you ? Are you doing it just for him ? Are you doing it for his sincere appreciation ? What are your reasons for doing it ? If you don't want to, then stop. If it is something YOU enjoy, continue.
It's about YOU. Not him.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.