Hey Forrest, I tried to find your thread, but anyway, I hope you will look back here and find this post. I have posted a LOT today on Christa's thread.....probably locked it up.
Anyway, I know you said that she needed to focus on one thing at a time. The difference in the male and female is that women are very complex creatures (in case you didn't know...lol) and what affects one area of our life....usually affects the other areas. I don't mean to be talking about her as though I'm talking behind her back, but I was afraid that if I continued to post on her thread today......I may get kicked off. So, what I'm trying to say is that if you will look at something she said about her H. I copied a lot of quotes from posts and the last one I copied really spoke something to me. Please look at it and see if you are seeing the same thing. She and you may get sick of hearing me press this issue, but I think this has to do with the passing away of her dad and everything combined.
I must have misunderstood the first time I went through her thread b/c I thought the H was talking to old GF is why she walked out. She didn't correct me, so ......but maybe I didn't give her time. I am so tired of reading today, my eyeballs are about to fall out....
Anyway, then today when I went back, it sounded differently. Maybe my posts are so long and people get bored reading them and just agree to whatever I say...lol. Accept for you....sweetie. As you said, it takes the drama for you......or something to that effect.
Talk later, Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
