I can understand cow tipping, but I cannot understand a manure fight.

One thing I forgot to come clean about... I've continued to make sure my husband has dinner ready when he comes home. He's expressed sincere appreciation for my help. I'm not sure what I should do. I don't know how to not be his wife. I don't know if it's a gradual thing or a flip the switch thing.

He's at the archery range with OW and possibly OW's stbx bf now. I was thinking of sending him a text asking if he has dinner plans and letting him know we don't have anything in the house to eat. I dunno...


M: 37
H: 36
Married: Aug 13, 2004
Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008
Reconciled: September 2008
Current: Ambivalence