Journaling: LL came over late yesterday afternoon...it was a good visit...noticed he did not wear his wedding ring (not his class ring---but he hasn't worn the class ring in a while)...I grabbed his hand and asked: No more wedding ring? He said my fingers are too fat to wear any rings...
He has gained weight...I was hurt that he didn't have it on but then again I had quit wearing mine...I started putting it back on...I had forgotten how beautiful my setting is...
Anyhow, I didn't say anything more about it. I was pleasant. He told me of another of his friends who is getting divorced and how he told his friend they should try to work everything out w/o lawyers...HA! Sometimes I wonder if his words have a double meaning...he has done this in the past.
I have to give up wondering what is going on inside his brain...it is so sad to see him act this way...
Today I am back in my hometown to attend a party...brought the Diva and I will spend the night at my parents...go back home tomorrow...
Kisses to all! Vali
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller
