Getting past the hurt and anger

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Yes, he is not a liar. He is a confronter and will just not tell me stuff he doesn't want me to know. He confronted me and said he wasn't hiding with her at all. And at one point a male friend had called me and he found out about it and was all excited, told me he knew I would hook up before him, and that was only a few months ago.

I agree, we all are blindsided by this. I am trying to turn a corner today, I have had literally one of the worst weeks of my life. He and my kids are with OW down the shore where I should be. So all day I have been on online dating. Probably for the wrong reasons, but at this point it has been a needed distraction. Plentyoffish.com. Free. Something to do or laugh at anyway.