Too late for DB for us, #9 (was in separated)

[newnamenewlife]

CW,
So glad that you checked in. I've been wondering about you. Moving must be really hard, just more upheaval. I am still in our house, and hope to be indefinitely because I love it and so do the kids. It's hard in its own way to be here with photos of H&I up on the wall, and memories of our life together--but I can't imagine having to move out right now.

And I feel the same way about forgiveness. It's a great thing to aspire to, but hard to imagine after what we've been through. (Check my thread for a new unforgiveable thing my H said recently. I'm really struggling.)

But--hey--you had a DATE?? I am happy for you (I think it's a great sign that you're moving on) and also a little envious because I simply can't imagine how I will ever end up on a date again. All the men I know are married and even if I met someone available, I feel like I can't trust anyone if I couldn't trust H to be who I thought he was. But--my wedding ring is off and that feels good. To heck with standing for my M--I'm done. For me it's been 9 mos since the bomb, and I'm open to dating in theory. How did your date come about--I am SO curious!