The arm around you is nice. She initiated the physical touch and that's a positive sign. Take it for that. I know it seems like a crumb sometimes, but imagine how big that would be for someone who doesn't even see their WAS.
I'm saying this for my own benefit too. We tend to lose sight of the small stuff because we are wanting the 'big stuff' to happen. I keep remembering when my wife and I were dating how it started small and gradually increased in intimacy.
Good stuff Distressed. Thanks for sharing because it helps me to remember where I'm at also.
Ken
Your right about wanting the big stuff but when you go weeks without even a touch it gets hard. I know she is going thru alot even though she is great at hiding her emotions so I have to tell myself that she is unavaliable to me until she figures out what she wants.
I know alot of LBSs out there wish their R was a far as mine but its like anything else when you do get to this point your striving for the next. I envy SmartCookie and her relationship and she goes thru bad times as well. Its all in your prosective and having someone ahead of you gives us all something to shoot for. Its the competativeness of us men. I need to enjoy where I am at as you all say and stop wanted to move it along too fast.
