Cuz.. it's working!! Short story - stbx and ow have been together for about two years and we are in the midst of what started out as a somewhat agreeable d. As time has gone on, though it has turned extremely ugly. Partly me I'm sure since it makes me sick that they are exposing children to their adulterous lifestyle.

But, do I not have a right to be po'd when he wheels up w/ow to take D4 for the weekend? No warning at all that SHE will be along. Just as if it's completely normal. This after he refused to do one thing on the house we are trying to sell - he says he doesn't live there so why should he!.. umm.. how about because you want to present in the best possible way.. Who is this man anyway???

Is he trying to make me hate him before we finalize things?? Does he really think I'm going to agree with everything he wants just because he is screaming at me and bullying me?? Did I really marry this person? How can someone actually say ILY one day (not that I believed it) and all of a sudden be sooo against you the next? Do these WAS always act so irrational and goofy?