Anyway, about Stunninly Beautiful Italian Man (SBIM)... He's actually really interesting, very nice, great sense of humor, charming and there's a very high probability that he's MAJOR player.
He looks 28, but he's 38. Never been married. Learned English by watching David Lettermen. He's very passionate - to hear him describe his love for coffee was divine. Maybe it's because I've been with the world's least communicative man for the past almost 7 years that I was completely enthralled with the way this guy talks. I asked questions and let him do most of the chatting. It was nice. I'm glad I made a new friend.
Hey girlie, I'm so glad you had a good time with him. However, 38 & NEVER been married. HUGE red flag. Run run run the opposite direction. Or, as you said, hang out with a "friend", & listen to a beautiful man talk passionately about coffee, hmmmmmm. I dated this italian once........
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
I am with cookie. Italian, 38, never married? Keep him for "limited use only". Italians are so good with words but so poor with actions (sorry guys with Italian origin).
Hey, even if your H IS hurting, there is a shift because you "shifted". So, don't you dare let him suck you in drama again... Continue with what you are doing "taking care of you" (with limited help from external sources-wouldn't hurt)... Love K
My grandfather, who was 100% Polish, had the best Polish jokes. He once watched my brother and I having a horse manure fight in the pasture next to his house and proudly said "those are my Polish grand kids". I bet Ms Imp has a whole bunch of Sicilian jokes she knows.
