Nikki - you have given me such hope, and I thank you. I too would like to read your sitch, I'd love to follow how this all turned around. I read all of this thread, amazing! And such control you show! I have such issues with that. I am a control freak and yet I can't control my own emotions or mouth!

My H never wore his ring, hardly ever, so how awesome your's is definitely thinking about it's significance and his commitment. I can only hope mine gets there someday. I actually gave my H my wedding band back, and said that I hoped someday he would give it back to me, and guess what? He lost it. It was actually a 10 year anniversary ring with 10 diamonds and he lost it. Guess that says alot, huh?

If you find your threads, let me know, I'd love to read. Your H sounds like he is right there with you.


Me-48 H-48
Married 25years
Sep 12/05
S-24, S-22, S-18, D-12
Dated for 9 months of S, not dating now
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#Post1565826