My thoughts are the same. I have been extremely clear to the kids. I know how kid's minds can only hope for mommy and daddy to reunite...but H is just nowhere near 'baked'.
I have no idea why he hasn't filed. I think he may want to sometime this year. So far, THANK GOD, it hasn't happened.
BIL told me, H wants me back in his life. Not as his wife of course, but as his friend and someone to hang out with. This brings me back to starting a friendship (last thread). It is hard with an H like mine who is very overwhelming. I need to set my boundaries very well.
For example, I don't want ow hanging around the kid's sporting activity. That is MY social area. H will push this boundary, I am sure. But I plan to stick to it.
How are you today Mishka ?
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus
