((((((Cinders))))))

As long as the kids are aware of the facts that is really all you can do. Their little minds will always hope that their parents get back together but you have been clear and honest with them. I think it's a very mature thing to do to take them on holiday together. You are still married after all.

I'm still really confused as to why that is. If H has no intentions of coming back then why hasn't he filed for D? I have probably asked you this question before but I'm lost as to the answer.


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!