Kelly Jo, I remember how stressful it was for me when H was in the house and his focus was elsewhere (OW). When they are still home it makes detachment doubly difficult.
Have you tried leaving the room a few minutes after he enters - to do something which you enjoy doing? (I know, it's hard to think of anything enjoyable now.) I don't know if you still eat together but, you could try changing your mealtimes in order to go to a GAL activity outside the house.
Me: 59 H: 59 Together: 28 years Married: 25 years in August "There may be someone else" 12/26/07 H signed a one year lease 4/1/08 H moved out 5/11/08 H beginning to show a tiny amount of interest 7/5/08 Is it possible that he is courting me? 9/30/08
