The Wifey - trying hard not to cry.

[Neilh23]

Leaving.......Kjo..i wish i could give you the right advice. The space is so key to this sitch. I've learned so much about myself, and relationships since I left, i'm pissed that i did leave. Rationally, i know i had to, but emotionally i get pissed, thinking that things should've been better by now. I know, wasting my energies. LOL

GALing is the best way to detach. Do nice things for yourself. Enjoy the world around you. Just do things. Read something inspirational. Reach out to others on here (like you've been doing!!!..LostP.....[i will admit, my patience wears thing there]. ACT AS IF when you are around him. Limit your conversations. Hell, one word responses can suffice. Let him wonder about you. IF he asks, say, "I don't want to talk about it right now"

THe separation helped me, as painful as it seemed at the time. Think of it this way.....if you detach for awhile now, you will be better off when you reattach later :-)

((((KJo)))))

stay strong