My dad is an alcoholic. (Though he doesn't admit it to this day.)
You are right. My attachment is unhealthy. I feel so low and awful and feel I'm doing everything wrong.
How do I detach when he is in the house? Should I be the one to leave? Do I ask him to leave?
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.