one other question.......if she can't afford the house and tells me I can have it, but I don't want it either, should I just say "we should sell it before you move out" ? or "we should sell it" ? or "we should wait and see for a bit" ? neither of us would want to be paying on a house that no one is living in, but I feel if i tell her to sell it, she'll see that as me giving up on us and it'll push her away faster than she is already.
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF
