I said Ok sure as happily neutral as I could. Ive heard this stuff before. Its strange. I'm hurting sure but I seem to be on DB autopilot. The answers I give her don't require a whole lot of effort to give. PMA, Distance, go a little dark, don't feed the alien.
Dude, you have it nailed down. That auto pilot feeling is you responding that way you know you should.
Good job my man.
It really doesn't matter if she goes out with the gf or the bf right now, what she is "looking" for is how you react to her going out at all.
The fact that you don't make a difference in your reaction gives her nothing to "use" later.
You are doing a great job of not playing into her stunts.
That's what it really is, no matter how we cut it, a stunt, aimed at eliciting a reaction.
Don't, react that is, it doesn't pay off. Trust me, it didn't here.
My reactions to her pre-planned "stunts" were set up to fail (what a jerk...) no matter what they were.
Don't play into that hand.
Best,
Punkt.
These are my friends now!
But someday baby... You ain't worry my life anymore
Take away, take away what I don't need, save the good part please. Fade away, fade away.
